(Think Positive Monday: sharing tips and keeping me in line to live a happier and more positive life)
Happy New Year! I too am suffering from holiday break hangover this morning. It was a festive, indulgent, and relaxing holiday vacation. Now, we are refreshed and looking at the blank slate that is the New Year with optimism and high hopes.
Yes, New Years, the time of resolutions. We all make them, even if we don’t broadcast them out over social media or to our friends and family, I can’t help but believe we all make small decisions to improve ourselves and our lives.
Many sound the same: live a healthier lifestyle, save money, lose weight, sleep more, quit smoking, drink less.
I personally have vowed to follow two resolutions:
1. Save More Money
2. Relax More (a hard endeavour for an overly anxious woman like myself)
But the problem with resolutions? By March most of them have gone out the window. We are overly optimistic these first few weeks, thinking we hold the ability to turn our lives around. Then our busy schedules, stress, and old habits start to come back.
Fact: We always have the ability to turn out lives around.
The real problem with New Year’s resolutions is the fact that they are all overly vague. They are broad, general, ideas. So, you say want to live a healthier lifestyle…have you selected your meal plan or your weekly gym routine? How will you hold yourself accountable?
Yes, I’m determined to save more money, but without a working budget, a list of things we are going to cut from said budget, and a way to keep myself on track, that determination is nothing more than an optimistic thought. I say I want to relax, but if I don’t have a plan for the entire year of how to stress less I will never make any changes.
This may sound obvious, but if it is so obvious, why do so many people fail on their New Year’s Resolutions?
It’s all about the commitment. The act of following through, which takes an action plan and dose of daily intention.
I vow to not just make resolutions but to make commitments. In order to save money we are in the process of dropping our cable subscription and finding ways to cut back on our grocery budget. In order to relax more I’m going to commit to practicing meditation and yoga, go to bed earlier, and teach my mind to learn that it’s okay to let things be.
What commitments do you plan to make for the new year and what is your plan for following through on them?